Where do you get the confidence to flirt with people? from Mark's blog

title. in short, i’m 23, low-key ugly, and never been in a relationship/dated. i can be friendly, but i don’t have the guts to flirt with anyone. ime guys i find cute are into girls much more attractive than me, so i’ve always assumed right off the bat that they wouldnt be interested.

tbh i don’t know if i’m just shooting myself in the foot or staying in my lane by not flirting. i just feel super undesirable bc of how invisible i am. does flirting make a difference anyway?

edit: idk where y'all are getting the idea that i'm a straight man.